Friday, November 13, 2009

When will Filipino culture start thinking forward?

Posted by Gela

Homosexuality has been around since, well... forever. The Greeks and the Romans had taken it to the extreme, looking down on women and preferring men in their sexual attractions and practices. The old testament has referred to sodomy, even further proof same sex acts have been around for quite a long time. History proves that there have been people identifying themselves as gays and lesbians. This is who they are, a part of their lifestyle and their individuality. The only difference between now and today is people had to keep it quieter back then. But even until now, some cannot come out as openly and many still look down on them to the point of bigotry. I think a certain scene episode in Glee episode 9 proves this point.

But Glee is just a portrayal of reality. In real life, the Philippines has to deal with the backward/irrational decisions of the COMELEC. Although I am not surprised the traditional and religious members disagreed, I am shocked that they dared come out with this decisions with the following statements. Go ahead and make a decision but do so with SOUND LOGIC. Don't base it solely on RELIGIOUS BOOKS and CONTRADICTING REASONS.

“We are not condemning the LGBT, but we cannot compromise the well-being of the greater number of our people, especially the youth,”

1) did the COMELEC ever stop and think, a significant part of the youth are part of the said community? or, since they are young, tyring to find their identity in the said community? Some people already know they're gay at 6 or 7!
2) And how exactly do the LGBT compromise the youth's well-being? Because they have an identity against your so-called morals? The youth need to learn how to be OPEN-MINDED, to accept people for who they are and understand what equal rights really mean for all. The youth need to learn what RESPECT really means.

the Comelec said that although the party presented proper documents and evidence for their accreditation, their petition is "dismissable on moral grounds."

“Should this Commission grant the petition, we will be exposing our youth to an environment that does not conform to the teachings of our faith,” the Second Division ruling states.

1) Morality is subjective. No matter how much theology or philosophy you throw at my face, the world has so many religions no one can claim morality as an objective stand point.
2) There's supposed to be a separation of church and state people. Not everyone is Catholic or Muslim. I'm a member of the freakin' youth and many of the youth prefer to be agnostic/atheistic/non-practicing (insert religion here). It's not your business what decision they make with their religion. But rejecting a gay partylist group is a violation of human rights. And that's the biggest sin anyone can committ, especially in a position of power.

Tuesday, November 10, 2009
Posted by Gela

1 month and 2 weeks till christmas.

1 month and 2 weeks till I'm 22.

54 days till 2010.

It will be the last year of the 2000's first decade.

My second year as a 20-something and an official adult.

How soon is now?

Sunday, October 25, 2009

keeping it real

Posted by Gela

In a little more than 24 hours, my boyfriend and I will be officially two years together. Because of conflicting work/school schedules, we had to celebrate it early today with the premier show at Philippine Fashion Week and (500) Days of Summer. It was an awesome weekend/start, as we were able to celebrate with two art forms we adore: fashion and film. :)

After seeing the film, he mentioned that he's no Tom. I was quiet at first--not because I was disappointed but because my head and heart were unsure how to react. Maybe three years ago I would have hated that he wasn't a crazy romantic. But we've been together for nearly two years. Why should I doubt that he isn't sure? To be truly sure about someone you love is a matter of sticking to that person and making sure what you have works. And we've definitely been doing that. :)

Love isn't about fulfilling expectations we've created from movies, music, or tv shows. It's about discovering the possibilities with what you already have or may have.

My favorite line from the movie pretty much sums up what I have to say: "Robin is better than the girl of my dreams. She's real." -Paul, (500) days of summer :)

My dream guy would be more talkative. He'd have abs like Zac Efron and probably have some dance training. But I fell for a guy who's taciturn but has a lot on his mind. He's got a lovely belly to poke and a singing voice that melts me every time. Benjo's way more awesome than my dream guy. He's real. He's my boyfriend. :)

Friday, October 23, 2009

Because we all need funny posts. I miss my blockmates!

Posted by Gela

toper: You're gay.
warning_11am: so are you
toper: you're gayer
warning_11am: sino gayest?
toper: barney
warning_11am: stinson?
warning_11am: or the dinosaur?
toper is typing a message.
toper: barney the purple dick